All of it perfectly understandable and I agree with you. What I can't stand is people thinking that what they see on TV, in mags and the like is what real life is about. It isn't. I can't stand guys who want to see two women get it on just because they're lesbians and think if he is there watching that he can get in on the fun. Sorry it ain't going to happen. The those women won't let him because he's not their sexual preference and their style of lovemaking is totally different from what he is told by the mainstream porn industry that lesbians do in strait men's porn. Just because it's lesbian porn or bisexual porn for the strait man doesn't mean it's lesbian porn for the lesbian woman or the bisexual woman/man or gay man either.
And I'm all with you on the "BBW" thing as well. Just because I'm overweight doesn't mean I'm an easy lay or a virgin with no sexual experience or that just because my boobs are a 48HH doesn't mean that their fake and I had a boob job. If I had a boob job they would be a 48D!
The core of the problem is when people who have the fetish start to believe that who reality works. They forget and sometime never were taught the difference between reality and fantasy and that is when it becomes a problem. So to me people who can't tell the difference between fantasy sex and real sex have a huge problem and need to be taught a huge lesson. I admit I have my kinks and all, but I don't purposely thrust my fantasies on other people because I know if I did my squee bubble would burst worse than Chernobyl, but that is way I keep my kinks to myself and only leak them out to people I trust with simaler tastes per say. I try not to rub my sexual preferences and kinks into everyone's face because it will end up offending people (and if I offended you, I'm sorry. *Hugs*) and that's the last thing I want to do. Because it will cause debates like these.
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And I'm all with you on the "BBW" thing as well. Just because I'm overweight doesn't mean I'm an easy lay or a virgin with no sexual experience or that just because my boobs are a 48HH doesn't mean that their fake and I had a boob job. If I had a boob job they would be a 48D!
The core of the problem is when people who have the fetish start to believe that who reality works. They forget and sometime never were taught the difference between reality and fantasy and that is when it becomes a problem. So to me people who can't tell the difference between fantasy sex and real sex have a huge problem and need to be taught a huge lesson. I admit I have my kinks and all, but I don't purposely thrust my fantasies on other people because I know if I did my squee bubble would burst worse than Chernobyl, but that is way I keep my kinks to myself and only leak them out to people I trust with simaler tastes per say. I try not to rub my sexual preferences and kinks into everyone's face because it will end up offending people (and if I offended you, I'm sorry. *Hugs*) and that's the last thing I want to do. Because it will cause debates like these.